Freeing Self Blame

Life is hard enough already without blaming yourself for things that are out of your control. And even when things are within your control, we all make mistakes – it’s an essential part of being human – it’s how we learn. You shouldn’t have to be ‘perfect’ in order for anyone (friends, partners, family) to want to stay in your life. You are allowed to be human, have flaws, and fears like everyone else.

You trusting someone to freely be your imperfect self -  and them not be able to handle it? Well darlin, that shits on them. When someone truly cares about you they make an effort, not an excuse.

& if they can't? Well more fool them, because you are and always were worth it.

Quit overthinking, replaying failed scenarios, feeding self-doubt and seeing the good in everyone but yourself. Let it go. You deserve more.  

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