Happy Valentines To Me.

Dear Blonde,

2017 was a tough year for you, 2018 will be tough too.

Here’s the thing, I think sometimes you don’t give yourself enough credit for your success’ and too often you are harder on yourself picking out flaws that aren’t even visible to the eyes of many. Yet to you they matter. So today I am writing to tell you some of the things I love about you.

You have a heart of gold, really you do. You’ve done some sh*tty things for sure, but you never, go out of your way to cause harm mentally or physically to another person. You would even avoid hurting someone that’s hurt you, even if that hurts you more. It’s a stupid quality, but a quality all the same.

Your work ethic is second to none, we all have our lazy days, but sometimes I wonder how you get through the insane targets you set yourself – Gym, work, this blog, connecting on Instagram, coaching people at Pegasus, coaching people online and always looking for the next opportunity to put your feet on the ladder. 
What’s more is 80% of what you do is for love not money and a real passion for helping others. Takes a special kinda crazy to take on that kind of life and for the most part you do it with a smile on your face.

Blonde one, you need to stop being so hard on yourself, you need to make 2018 the year you forgive yourself for your mistakes and let go of old haunts and please, please don’t try to rely on anyone else for your happiness. At the end of the day the only person you are ever guaranteed is yourself, never forget that and make it the best friendship you hold.

On the flip side, when you feel it, don’t be afraid to love with everything you have, knowing your love is one of the best gifts you can give someone. Sometimes they will love you back, and sometimes they won’t. Both situations are only going to result in your growing as a person, so what the hell have you got to lose eh?

Last but not least - Thank you, for never giving up. For always finding a way to bounce back even in the most hellish of moments.

You are beautiful, you are ambitious, you are strong.
You’re fcking mental but you ARE A BADASS.

Love, Blonde xox

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