In today’s
post I am going to list a few more different things that we can all do to boost
our Self-Esteem, Self-Confidence and Inner net-worth!
Mastering
new skills – find something that you enjoy, study it, learn it and own it! By
becoming skilled in an area that interests you, you will increase your sense of
competency!
Evening
lists! You know me I have a list for everything, but this one is extra special –
it’s a list of congratulations, to myself for my daily accomplishments! We all
deserve a pat on the back for our daily wins, so give that to yourself!
Get clear
with yourself on your values! Do a check list (oh look another list) of your
life, go into all area’s and make sure you are aligned with your values.
Battle of
the beliefs – everytime you catch yourself belittling yourself, or getting into
a negative nancy mode – take a minute and question yourself – challenge the
negative thoughts, tell them to sod off. Always best if you don’t do this one
aloud.. unless you’re in a private space… aheh.
Let
negative people go… I say this all the time, but my goodness it’s the one I struggle
with the most. I hate letting people go, I mean you really have to push me to a
point of no returns before I will walk out of your life. Yet it’s something I am
learning to do, something I recommend – if someone’s actions, or lack of action
in your life is causing you to doubt yourself, and feel crappy on a regular
basis, you really have to do yourself a favour and show them the door. There are
billions of people in this world, plenty of those people will surround us with
love and positive vibes… so why do we waste our time on the ones adding no
value?
Following
on from this… I think I personally, and I’m sure some of you need to be working
out what our boundaries are. Then respecting ourselves to make those boundaries
‘No Negotiables’ in our lives. By living without boundaries, we end up
accidentally allowing people to take advantage of us, manipulate us, control
us. Being confident means maintaining firm, solid boundaries.
Take care of
yourself and your appearance. It’s not false that when you look your best, you
feel your best, when you feel your best, you do your best!
Sassy pants
on – you got this!
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